Even though it is so very easy to be an asshole when dealing with online dating and people who message you who you couldn’t be less interested in, I try to be helpful.  So when this late 50 year old man with no face pics, who is also married and not in an open relationship, messaged me, I suggested a few other sites — OKCupid didn’t seem like exactly the right space for him.  As always, trying to be nice doesn’t always have stellar results.  Sometimes you wish you’d said nothing.


“Give it a try,” is what you tell a kid who says they don’t like broccoli when they’ve never tried broccoli.  Fucking a cheater nearly twice your age is a pretty high bar to set for “give it a try.”

Great First Message, Dude

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